Sex, Love and the Cinderella
Chapter- 3
The Cinderella..
Sigmund Freud once said that we leave things behind someones place who like unconsciously so that is gives us an alibi to meet that person again. Evolution of humans to a highly developed species have made these mating games very complicated, we don't say anything and try to hide our feelings and we also trick ourselves in thinking that we have mastered our instincts, but the part of our brain that controls our unconscious being has not yet evolved with us and it still remains untouched. Although it remained untouched since humans first started to get attracted to each others , it starts acting very intelligently and purposefully when the core of desires are touched. We are so much habituated to lie to our self and desires that we even ignore when it tries to work with us therefore it goes one step ahead and acts without us.
We all have favorite porn stars that we like, the ones who makes us hard like iron rod or wet us like a juicy fruit, and believe it or not even though we love to see them in action, we avoid seeing them often. The reason why you hide and keep those naughty folders hidden is not that you are afraid, that any one could find them but, the real reason is that you want to keep it hidden to make it difficult for yourself to find them.
December 2014, It was a 3 days holiday and I decided to visit Khajurao temples in India.There were many sculptures and idols all over the village. The walls of the temples were filled with beautiful human forms and love. One very unique sculpture on the side wall of the temple that caught my attention was the sculpture of a woman, she was holding a mirror on her hand and looking at the love marks that her partner has left on her the previous night. She was smiling and her face looked as if she is trying to remember how she got it. I couldn't help but wonder, that the mark that was left on her was there knowingly or just a reflex of sexual act.
We could easily stop our partners from giving us the love mark, but we often chose not to. I was left with such marks on me many times and each time I remember it was left there for others to find it. I wanted my love to find that I was cheating. I wanted the world to find I was satisfied last night. I wanted the world to know I did something which I was not supposed to do.I wanted to feel the freedom and show that to the world. We often choose the neck to leave love marks, not because its near our lips but because we want everyone to know that we have encrypted our mark of love.
We play very complicated games when it comes to leaving things behind.We leave things unconsciously for others, we leave things unconsciously for ourselves, we leave marks consciously on others and we leave marks consciously on others.
So now the question is, did Cinderella leave her shoes behind accidentally?????
The Cinderella..
Sigmund Freud once said that we leave things behind someones place who like unconsciously so that is gives us an alibi to meet that person again. Evolution of humans to a highly developed species have made these mating games very complicated, we don't say anything and try to hide our feelings and we also trick ourselves in thinking that we have mastered our instincts, but the part of our brain that controls our unconscious being has not yet evolved with us and it still remains untouched. Although it remained untouched since humans first started to get attracted to each others , it starts acting very intelligently and purposefully when the core of desires are touched. We are so much habituated to lie to our self and desires that we even ignore when it tries to work with us therefore it goes one step ahead and acts without us.
We all have favorite porn stars that we like, the ones who makes us hard like iron rod or wet us like a juicy fruit, and believe it or not even though we love to see them in action, we avoid seeing them often. The reason why you hide and keep those naughty folders hidden is not that you are afraid, that any one could find them but, the real reason is that you want to keep it hidden to make it difficult for yourself to find them.
December 2014, It was a 3 days holiday and I decided to visit Khajurao temples in India.There were many sculptures and idols all over the village. The walls of the temples were filled with beautiful human forms and love. One very unique sculpture on the side wall of the temple that caught my attention was the sculpture of a woman, she was holding a mirror on her hand and looking at the love marks that her partner has left on her the previous night. She was smiling and her face looked as if she is trying to remember how she got it. I couldn't help but wonder, that the mark that was left on her was there knowingly or just a reflex of sexual act.
We could easily stop our partners from giving us the love mark, but we often chose not to. I was left with such marks on me many times and each time I remember it was left there for others to find it. I wanted my love to find that I was cheating. I wanted the world to find I was satisfied last night. I wanted the world to know I did something which I was not supposed to do.I wanted to feel the freedom and show that to the world. We often choose the neck to leave love marks, not because its near our lips but because we want everyone to know that we have encrypted our mark of love.
We play very complicated games when it comes to leaving things behind.We leave things unconsciously for others, we leave things unconsciously for ourselves, we leave marks consciously on others and we leave marks consciously on others.
So now the question is, did Cinderella leave her shoes behind accidentally?????
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